Saturday, December 31, 2011

Moving into 2012...

Dad left us on March 6. It was a sad time because not only were we to be without dad; mom never returned to her home either because of her inability to live alone or with others and be safe from her disease - - Alzheimer's!

Our mom and dad were the bookends and anchors of our family. Yes, they anchored us; now we drift into the unknown. We don't know how the final chapter of a family who literally fell apart when a relationship of nearly 68 years ended with the death of a spouse. My sister, Kathy, and I have cried a lake of tears this year -- surprised that Texas could suffer a drought! Surely our tears filled the gap.

Many Baxter's passed away in 2011 as well. The lives of the Baxter's intertwined with ours over the years. They have always been a huge part of our lives as much as anyone. One right after the other seemed to leave us as though they held hands and followed one another to the other side. I remember them with fondness, love and respect.

In April, our precious cousins, Carolyn and Johnny, lost their son Danny Arthur. Another heart ache to add to the already tough times. Life will never be the same for the Arthur family.

On November 8, our 21 year old great niece, Kimmie Little, daughter of Don and Robin Little, passed. She'll always be remembered for a smile that could put sunshine to shame brightening up any room with that gift- her smile. A beautiful deep dimpled girl with long blonde hair and the bluest eyes ever, a beauty to behold. We miss you Kimmie!

Exactly a month after Kimmie said goodbye, on December 8, a man who was like a brother to Chick, a confidante, a fishing partner, a man who called him about every day for eons, was always there, Franklin O'Dell, passed from this earth.

On this earth tonight, we think of you and we are lonely for your presence again. We share you with heaven tonight. You are missed! We remember you.